The Indecent Proposal…part two…..

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After the morning meeting the magician  was to drive up north to get magic props that he needed and to see his family.  He of course left me with the elephant in the room.

The elephant of the proposed affair.  Seriously, when I look at my vision board nowhere on it was a married man with two small children and an ex-wife and a teen-age daughter. He had also said to me the day before that he was not happy. Upon his return he gave me a card that had two wolves on the front cover.

“You know wolves mate for life.” ” I know” he responds.

On the inside of the card it says,

It is written in the stars

and whispered on the wind;

destiny would guide our hearts

to a love that knows no end.

I had been in love with this man for thirty years.  I thought his declarations of love were real and genuine…….

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21 Responses to “The Indecent Proposal…part two…..”

  1. ramblingsfromamum Says:

    Love can be cruel – deception even crueler…. I am sorry that this had happened to you..and I can only hope you have moved on and tried to forget him…difficult I know… he isn’t your soulmate Ivonne…there is another… xxxx

    • Sex, Spirit, Soul Mates and Chocolate....Ivonne's Journey Says:

      I totally agree with you. There are reasons I am going back to flesh out this story which will be revealed in some following usual your support is so appreciated.

      • ramblingsfromamum Says:

        Your welcome…. I am intrigued now…do take care though…ok xx

        • Sex, Spirit, Soul Mates and Chocolate....Ivonne's Journey Says:

          Yes, lets just say that I am protecting my honor by writing the truth as it occured. I have found out from a mutual aquaintence that he is saying that I came after him—utter nonsense……..and he is about to post a Spiritual Book on amazon. ha that is so laughable……

          • ramblingsfromamum Says:

            Oh dear God .buy the book and post a review….
            should be an interesting read…..

            • Sex, Spirit, Soul Mates and Chocolate....Ivonne's Journey Says:

              Oh yes I am and if any of my poetry or writing is in that book I am getting myself a lawyer. I have sent him so much of my writing when we were together.

              I am not walking away like a dog with my tail in beween my legs like I did 30 years ago with this guy. This time I am fighting back.



              • ramblingsfromamum Says:

                Excellent!!!!! Can’t wait to see how this unfolds 🙂 xx

  2. jenthewallflower Says:

    I’m glad you used the psychopath word. I used “antisocial” in a previous comment and actually had thought of psychopath, but I didn’t want to quite go that far without knowing more of the story. I agree with you completely.

  3. Maryanne Says:

    I’ve had this theory, since I was 19 (many lifetimes ago) that if unhappy people would just LEAVE the person they were unhappy with, everyone would find their true love a lot faster because more people would be available.

  4. sakuraandme Says:

    I’m on the edge of my seat waiting to see what happened next! *Ack* the sad part is its real life and not a story!
    All I can say is I hope you hit him where it hurts! and that’s not his balls!!! *laughing* that’s just a temporary pain….
    Paula xx

  5. terry1954 Says:

    is there really a perfect love out there Ivonne? I have never found it myself. I loved this post!

    • Sex, Spirit, Soul Mates and Chocolate....Ivonne's Journey Says:

      Terry, I have to believe that there is a perfect love for me out there–may not be “perfect” but at least perfect for me. Just like I have to believe that everyone has that perfect partner out there just looking for them as well.



  6. Mayrbear's Lair Says:

    OMG! Pretty much the same card I got from him when we met! LOL! Perhaps he bought a box of these and has them stashed for when he seeks the next “life-wife!” Thanks Ivonne … this has been such an education (Says the first wife!) LOL Glad you are getting the truth out there! Free free … set them free … our spirits that is!

    • Sex, Spirit, Soul Mates and Chocolate....Ivonne's Journey Says:

      ok, that’s funny and it’s an “ouch” at the same time…sigh…..

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  8. Girl Please! Says:

    Do he have a brother from another mother..My God Ivonne this has me in awe…let me contiunue readind. 🙂

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  11. Mayrbear's Lair Says:

    Hey Ivonne … thanks for taking me down memory lane!! Ha ha!!! OMG! He hasn’t upgraded his tactics … It was like reading my first meeting with him … flowers, soul mate, in a bad relationship, she had already (in his words) positioned herself with her own lawyer and was looking to get out of their long term relationship. the same identical words on the card only written to my name … gheez … Lazy ass man! Guess he figured he could recycle the tactics and perhaps this time come up with the right woman! LOL!!!!! wow … I am Sooooooooooo glad I am no longer married to this guy. Now if we can just get him to catch up on child support responsibilities … five months in arrears and counting!!! Great info … keep shining a light sister!

    • Sex, Spirit, Soul Mates and Chocolate....Ivonne's Journey Says:

      Glad I take you down memory lane and give you a laugh…hopefully the next target will find this information before she too strays down the emotional hurricane.

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