He gave me that card, which spoke of our unending love on the morning of Feb 7, 2012. That day was filled with one meeting after another starting at 9:30 am and going through 8:00 PM. We would go back and forth from meetings back to his hotel room to re-group. After on of the meetings I was sitting/laying down curled up on a sofa type chair exhausted because I had to drive in early morning traffic from Long Beach–and I am so not a morning person. He suggested that I take a nap on the bed—-that nothing would happen-he wouldn’t try anything. And he was true to his word. By the time we came back in the afternoon we were taking a nap together, one of those innocent naps like we had taken together many times before years ago.
Little did I realize that I was being “groomed”.
“grooming involves psychological manipulation in the form of positive reinforcement and foot-in-the-door tactics, using activities that are typically legal but later lead to illegal activities.” http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Child_grooming
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