The Indecent Proposal…part three……


He gave me that card, which spoke of our unending love on the morning of  Feb 7, 2012.  That day was filled with one meeting after another starting at 9:30 am and going through 8:00 PM.  We would go back and forth from meetings back to his hotel room to re-group.  After on of the meetings I was sitting/laying down curled up on a sofa type chair exhausted because I had to drive in early morning traffic from Long Beach–and I am so not a morning person.  He suggested that I take a nap on the bed—-that nothing would happen-he wouldn’t try anything.  And he was true to his word.  By the time we came back in the afternoon we were taking a nap together, one of those innocent naps like we had taken together many times before years ago.

Little did I realize that I was being “groomed”.

“grooming involves psychological manipulation in the form of positive reinforcement and foot-in-the-door tactics, using activities that are typically legal but later lead to illegal activities.”

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15 Responses to “The Indecent Proposal…part three……”

  1. sakuraandme Says:

    Okay, I know this man is an absolute ass, but!….Wow!!! the sex sounded awesome!! *laughing* Sorry Ivonne! ….Paula x

    • Sex, Spirit, Soul Mates and Chocolate....Ivonne's Journey Says:

      Yes, folks there are reasons why I have been addicted to this man…and it’s not because he is a good person with a good heart…hah far from it..but the sex…dear lord my body was just made to have sex with this man……I kid you not the man would just walk into the room and my body would start tingling…..sigh……yes he is quite an ass…why is it the asses are so good at sex?

      • sakuraandme Says:

        Lol, No idea, but it’s so true!! x

  2. radaronelson Says:

    I’m with the above response. The sex…wow…yea um…well I’ll just leave it at that.

  3. ramblingsfromamum Says:

    Can I say…dare I say what you already know…he is an ass – a manipulating desirable one – a god you make the world move for me – but still just an ass 😦

    • Sex, Spirit, Soul Mates and Chocolate....Ivonne's Journey Says:

      Mum you are so right…..but at that time I had no clue as to what an ass he was..I believed your are my soulmate–etc…..there is more I will continue to post. Before the new year starts the story will be finished and on to the next chapter of my life. You see I have found out that he has told mutual friends that I chased after him–hmnn hence why the truth is being posted here. I am sure he would have a fit if he knew……lmao……..

      • ramblingsfromamum Says:

        and there is the answer – the manipulation – the ego boost – the ‘you chased him’ when in fact the opposite.
        Deception in it’s highest form..these type of men twist the story for their own liking… how pleasing it would be if he found out ..a touch of sweet revenge

        • Sex, Spirit, Soul Mates and Chocolate....Ivonne's Journey Says:

          well, truly the best revenge would be if his wife found out the truth and kicked his butt out of their home…but I will not contact her….she will have to find out from someone else or chance upon my blog…..I kept quiet trying to protect her and the small children but I just could not take the lies anymore. Although to be honest he cheated on his first wife with the current wife–so she knows he is prone to affairs….more posts on that to come as well….

          • ramblingsfromamum Says:

            then she sadly is foolish for remaining….

            • Sex, Spirit, Soul Mates and Chocolate....Ivonne's Journey Says:

              well, if she were to know the whole truth about him yes, but he probalby has her convinced that I came after him. Probalby doesn’t know that he was my first love and that we had a relationship thirty years ago..the truth of this whole mess is so unbelievable and yet I have not made up any of it.

              • ramblingsfromamum Says:

                Because he is a coward – I wait for the next instalment. 🙂

              • Sex, Spirit, Soul Mates and Chocolate....Ivonne's Journey Says:

                Yes, people with Narcisstic Personality Disorder are cowards……but I am not 😉

  4. terry1954 Says:

    I fell in love with every word. I am such a sap when it comes to romance. I want romance so bad, but alas, no one is in my life now for five years. I feel like I am getting so much older and the pickings are so slim. The thoughts of going to my grave without a love in my life are devastating to me. I used to pray every day that God would open my eyes and show me someone he had for me, but I finally gave up

    • Sex, Spirit, Soul Mates and Chocolate....Ivonne's Journey Says:

      Terry, I feel the same way. Which is why it was so easy for Jay to lie to me and to catch me in his lies. But I have faith that the right man is out there for me and that I will meet him soon and so should you. Think about it this way–if you had a man in your life right now you would not be able to devote as much time for Al–because you would have a man demanding some of your attention and rightly so. So at the right time the right man will show up for you, yes it will.


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