Scandal in Malaysia…..Part Six



The next day the magican decided we should vacate the Sheraton Double-Tree and get into another hotel room.  Given the fact that I felt like a bird in a cage I was all for moving to a larger space.

He  had fears that maybe the hotel room could be bugged.  Seriously?!!  Yes, seriously.

Sam Vaknin, Ph.D. in his book, Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited – states


“The narcissist is hungry for ‘narcissistic supply‘. Even his paranoia is a
‘grandiose’ one. Through it, he proves to himself that he is sufficiently
important, interesting, and enough of a threat to be threatened back, to have
people conspire and worry over him, in other words: to be the subject of
incessant attention. This narcissistic supply needs constant feeding. He sees
enemies everywhere (mainly in his mind) and has delusions of grandeur. He
continually tries to sound important; and important men deserve important
enemies. The narcissist believes he has much greater power than he really
possesses. Such ‘power’ would look misplaced and abnormal without opponents. The
victories that the narcissist scores over his (mostly imagined) enemies serve to
emphasize his superiority.

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10 Responses to “Scandal in Malaysia…..Part Six”

  1. ramblingsfromamum Says:

    The narcissist believes he has much greater power than he really
    This line pretty much covers it all doesn’t it ‘I’? All sounds rather dodgy and a tad frightening.

  2. Sex, Spirit, Soul Mates and Chocolate....Ivonne's Journey Says:

    At the time I had no knowledge of NPD or that Jay could possibley have this mental/emotional disorder. The whole situation was surreal and quite unbelieveable. If I wasn’t there to witness the goings on I would not have believed much of it. Being in a foreign country there was not much to do but to trust this man…..

  3. sakuraandme Says:

    Hey Ivonne! Hope your weekends going well! ..You know I’ll be back!! LOl hugs…..Paula x

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