Jackie, Lily and I have gotten together a few times to do our spiritual work in order to magnetize our soul mate’s into our lives.
The second time we got together we worked on making a list of the qualities that we were looking for in a soul mate. We wrote everything down from physical qualities, mental, emotional and spiritual. The idea behind this process is to literally flesh out this person. Some people may say making a list is superficial, but is it?
I do not believe so. It is a process which works as a focusing lens to assist you in examing what are the essential qualties that you need in a partner. Often times women and men as well, claim they want to be in a relationship but have no idea what that relationship would look like. Women go out with men that they are physically attracted to but don’t really know what are the qualities that would make for a supportive , loving relationship. And so they have sex and become affected by the power of OXYTOCIN [more on Oxytocin later, 😉 ], and find themselves feeling in love with a man they are not really compatible with but are addicted to.
A list helps you to focus on what is essennial for you. We had fun with this as well and put all sorts of things on the list, including the types of activities that we would like to engage with our beloved.
So, after we spent time working on our lists we shared what we had come up with. I think we need to meet a set of triplets because give or take a couple of qualities we all seemed to have described the same man. We decided that if we did meet a trio of brothers that we have one big, gigantic wedding.
We then took our list out to our sacred space, the beach. There is just something so lovely as being on the beach in the middle of the night, candles burning, looking at the silvery stars against the black velvet night and sending love out to our beloved’s.